By Associate Amy Larocque-Rumano
On April 5, 2025, St. Mary’s Parish in Annapolis, MD, hosted the powerful workshop Having Difficult Conversations About Racism, organized by its Anti Racism Ministry.
As a representative of SSND’s Dismantling Racism Committee, I participated in it as a follow-up to our committee’s panel discussion with alumni of the historic St. Mary’s Colored School in Bryantown, where the SSND served.
Attendees included parishioners, individuals from other local churches, and people dedicated to racial justice. The day featured sessions on unconscious bias and the historical impact of racism in America, facilitated by Baltimore Racial Justice Action. This was followed by table discussions that centered on personal storytelling and communal reflection.
Though I didn’t know anyone at the start, I felt immediate connection and belonging. The workshop brought the realities of racism close to our hearts and fostered a sense of shared purpose to act.
Participants shared moving stories. For example, a tablemate recounted his father’s journey—one of the first Black trained doctors in Annapolis—who faced racial exclusion in land ownership and medical practice. He ultimately opened a veterinary clinic instead.
Another participant, a lawyer who moved from California over 15 years ago, described the contrast in openness and acceptance—so much so that her daughter returned to California to raise her family in a more inclusive environment.
The day ended powerfully with each workshop participant standing up to articulate their take-away and action item.
There was great gratitude for the hope generated by coming together. There was also appreciation for the facilitation provided by Baltimore Racial Justice Action, and for the initiative/invitation of St. Mary’s anti-racism committee.
I personally felt energized, and hope-filled by the intentions and efforts the attendees found at this workshop.
